Yarjejeniyar Hudu

Yau da dare ina tattaunawa da abokina, Ivory Coast, Jules. Jules sun ba da wasu hikima daga littafin, Yarjejeniyar Hudu, na Don Miguel Ruiz & Don Jose Luis Ruiz.

Kamar yadda yake tare da yawancin shawarwari, yana da kyau sosai, amma yana da wahalar aiwatarwa. Rayuwarmu ta yau da kullun kamar tana tura ikonmu na kiyaye abubuwa kamar wannan saman hankalinmu. Wataƙila tunda yana da huɗu kawai, zamu iya cimma shi, kodayake!

1. Ka Kasance Mara Impe Tare Da Kalmar Ka

Yi magana da mutunci. Fadi abin da kake nufi kawai. Guji amfani da kalmar don yin magana akan kanka ko tsegumi game da wasu. Yi amfani da ikon maganarka cikin shugabanci na gaskiya da kauna.

2. Kar Ka Dauki Wani Abu Da kanka

Ba abin da wasu suke yi saboda ku. Abin da wasu ke faɗi da aikatawa tsinkaye ne ga ainihin gaskiyar su, burin su. Lokacin da ba ku da kariya daga ra'ayoyi da ayyukan wasu, ba za ku sha wahala da wahala ba.

3. Kar ayi Zato

Nemo ƙarfin hali don yin tambayoyi da kuma bayyana abin da kuke so. Sadarwa da wasu a fili kamar yadda zaka iya don kauce wa rashin fahimta, bakin ciki da wasan kwaikwayo. Tare da wannan yarjejeniya guda ɗaya, zaka iya canza rayuwarka gaba daya.

4. Kullum kayi Kokari

Mafi kyawun ku zai canza daga lokaci zuwa lokaci; zai zama daban lokacin da kake cikin koshin lafiya sabanin rashin lafiya. A karkashin kowane irin yanayi, kawai kayi iyakar kokarinka, kuma zaka guji yanke hukunci kai, zagin kai da nadama.

Shawara mai ban sha'awa. Ina tsammanin na sami # 1 ƙasa, # 4 kusan can… # 2 Ina lafiya, tunda na amince da kaina. # 3 yana buƙatar wasu aiki! Godiya ga Jules don wuce wannan! Ina da wasu aiki da zan yi.

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    Doug Sauti kamar littafi mai ban sha'awa. Shin karatunku ya karanta? Shin ya cancanci kudin shiga ko kun taƙaita kayan adon daga ciki a cikin sakonku?

    Tabbas halaye guda huɗu don yin ƙoƙari zuwa ga. Kuma, to kai tsaye dangantaka da rubutun ra'ayin kanka a yanar gizo.

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      Na karanta wannan littafin sau da yawa kuma rayuwa tana canzawa a karo na farko, rayuwa tana tabbatar da kowane lokaci. Duk da yake ka'idodi masu sauki ne, a aikace a zahiri (sosai) a cikin rayuwarmu ta sirri da ƙwarewa yana ɗaukar horo da ci gaba da sha'awar ci gaban kai. Yanzu, yayin da tabbas na fi damuwa da ɓangarorin kaina kuma wannan rukunin adireshin na Doug ya zama mafi ƙwarewar sana'a / fasaha ta rayuwa, da'irar tasirinmu tana da kyau kamar yadda muke so ta kasance. An faɗaɗa yarjejeniyoyin guda huɗu a cikin littafin kuma yana bayyana ma’ana mafi zurfi ga kowane yarjejeniya.

      Farkon littafin yana da dan kaɗan, amma da zarar ya shiga cikin “naman” sa, sai na canza… sannan na canza. Idan kowa zai iya amfani da waɗannan ƙa'idodin, mu zai canza duniya.

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      Tabbas yana kan gajeren jerin litattafai na don karantawa, Dawud! Ban taɓa tunanin yin rubutun ra'ayin kanka a yanar gizo ba (duh!), Amma kuna da gaskiya - yana da kyau shawara ga masu rubutun ra'ayin yanar gizo!

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      Gaskiya ne cewa wannan yana da wuyar gaske. Yana iya taimaka tunani game da shi ta wannan hanyar. Ba wanda zai iya sa ku zama duk abin da ba ku ba. Don haka, idan kuka kira ni da sunaye ko kuma kuka gaya mini wani abu mara kyau game da kaina, hakika bai kamata ya shafi yadda nake kallon kaina ba - IDAN na kasance cikin aminci a cikin mutumta. A ciki akwai matsalar. Muna ba da damar fahimtar wasu game da mu ya shafi yadda muke fahimtar kanmu, maimakon kawai yarda da kanmu ko canza abubuwan da ba mu so kawai b / c muke so. Abin da kuka yi imani yawanci yakan sami nasara. Yi tunanin kyawawan abubuwa game da kanka kuma za ku so kanku; yi tunanin abubuwa marasa kyau kuma ba za ku so kanku ba.

      Ee, an zarge ni da kasancewa Pollyanna'ish …… amma abu ne mai shiryarwa a rayuwata kuma wanda ke min aiki da kyau, musamman a yau. 🙂

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        babbar shawara jule 🙂

        godiya mai yawa!

        Faɗin abubuwa marasa kyau akan intanet abu ne mai sauƙi. Kawai buga duk abin da kuke so a cikin akwatin maganganun… ..

        Mutane ba sa ma yin tunani game da tasirin da hakan zai iya yi a kan mai rubutun ra'ayin yanar gizo…. 🙁

        “Ka yi tunanin kyawawan abubuwa game da kanka kuma za ka so kanka; yi tunanin abubuwa marasa kyau kuma ba za ku so kanku ba. "

        Zan kasance mai bin shawarar ku ately

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    Ba zan iya ba da shawarar wannan littafin sosai ba - yana da sauƙin karantawa, kuma ya cancanci a sake karanta shi lokaci-lokaci don dawo da hankalinku kan hanya. An ba ni wannan littafin shekaru da yawa da suka gabata lokacin da nake cikin “mawuyacin faci” kuma ya taimaka mini wajen ɗaukar kaina. # 2 Kar a Anyauki Wani Abu da kaina ya sami babban sakamako a kaina ta hanyar taimaka ma ji da kaina.

    Kyakkyawan shawarwari, Doug!

    Marty Bird
    Wild Birds Unlimited
    http://www.wbu.com

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    Haƙiƙa idan kuna keta yarjejeniya ta # 2 ko # 3 kai ma ba za a sami rauni da Maganar ka ba (yarjejeniya # 1).

    Idan kana daukar wani abu da kanka to kana yin magana ne wanda ya sabawa kanka ta yadda kake ji. Wannan ba rashin impe bane. Idan kuna yin (ƙirƙirar a zuciyar ku) tunanin da zai haifar da rashin jituwa to ku ma ba a binku rauni.

    Bayyananniyar magana ta kalmar ku kuma tana buƙatar kuyi zato ba laifi, kuma kar kuyi maganganun da zasu sa ku ɗauki abubuwa da kaina.

    Da farko karantawa ya bayyana cewa Kasancewa mai lalacewa yafi sauki akan sauran. Lokacin da kake nazarin abubuwan mafi kyau ka gano cewa rayayyun yarjejeniyoyi # 2,3, da 4 suna jagorantarka zuwa cimma Impeccability.

    Detailarin bayani game da wannan a http://pathwaytohappiness.com/happiness/2007/01/19/be-impeccable-with-your-word/

    Sa'a,

    Gary

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